Stomas
I’m so scared of having to get a stoma one day I can’t even describe the fear that courses through my veins every time I think about it. It’s gut-wrenching when I consider the possibility.
A stoma is an external outlet for your intestines. In other words, they re-route your digestive tract through surgical means so that it empties through a hole in your lower abdomen instead of through your rectum.
To catch the waste you produce, you have to wear what’s called a colostomy bag. It has a little nozzle that fits over the stoma pretty snugly, and you can attach it to the waistband of your pants.
I guess most of my fear comes from the fact that if I ever had to get a stoma, I wouldn’t be able to take my shirt off to go swimming or mess around with a girl without having some [awkward and disgusting] explaining to do.
Some people say that wearing a bag is freeing, because for someone with Crohn’s who’s always had to worry about their next bathroom visit, once you have a bag all that worrying is over. That’s probably the only upside of the whole deal.
The most common types of stomas resulting from Crohn’s disease are created during either an ileostomy or a colostomy surgery. In the former case, the ileum (the end of the small intestine) is re-routed, whereas with the latter the colon is used to create the stoma.
Comment from CHRISTINE HALL
Time: September 14, 2010, 1:50 am
DON’T BE AFRAID OF A STOMA IT’S NOT AS BAD AS YOU THINK IT IS. I WAS 37 WHEN I HAD MY FIRST COLOSTOMY. I TOLD MY DOCTOR I NEEDED TO BE IN MY 80S UNCONSIOUS IN A NURSING HOME. BUT TO MY SURPRISE AFTER GOING THRU A BIT OF DEPRETION I DECIDED I COULD FEEL SORRY FOR MYSELF OR GET UP OFF MY DUFF & LIVE. YES I WON’T LIE BUT ONCE IN A WHILE A MIHAPP HAPPENS. BUT THINK ABOUT IT IT ALSO HAPPENS EVEN IF YOU DON’T HAVE AN OSTOMY I KNOW FROM 31 YEARS OF EXPERIENCE. LIFE GOES ON & IF THAT PERSON CARES VERY MUCH FOR YOU HE OR SHE WILL LOVE YOU UNCONDITIONALY MY HUSBAND HAS FOR THE 30 YEARS WE’VE KNOWN EACH OTHER & 28 YEARS OF MARRIAGE. GOOD LUCK TO YOU